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I am just an average guy rapidly advancing in years... but unfortunately(or fortunately!!) my passion
for the intimate company of lovely ladies remains at levels experienced in my early twenties. *S*
The good thing is that while I retain the passion and viagra free vigor of a much younger gentleman,
I have learned much from the women I have known and loved over the years.
Some of what I have learned
has allowed me to become a better instrument for their pleasure. They taught me how to kindle a fire
with a desire filled word whispered in a receptive ear, an electric touch at the nape of a neck or
a warm, moist tongue at the back of a knee.
.. In retrospect wildwood fl adult clubs however,
there have been lessons learned of much greater value. In my youth I found it more important to find
and be with as many women as I could.
It was about my pleasure not theirs. In essence I was using their
pussies to masturbate my cock. But they taught me... and I learned. I learned that every woman
is special.
Each one has a unique beauty much more complex, profound and enduring than what can be
perceived on the surface. Each one has a depth of sensuality tucked away anxiously waiting to come
out and all it takes is for someone to listen, to pay attention and release it.
And by doing so, he
gets in return ten times what he has given.Personality wise, I'm attracted to strong, confident, self-reliant,
independent women.
.. women who are intelligent, articulate, honest and caring. Women who don't need
anyone or anything to define who they are and enthusiastically take responsibility for their own success
and happiness.
What do these attributes have to do with an attractive intimate partner? In my "ideal"
such a woman possesses the self-awareness to acknowledge and accept that her sexuality(in whatever
form it may manifest) is a fundamental part of who she is.
.. an acceptance without shame or ambiguity.
Being true to herself as a sexual being, eagerly willing to communicate, explore and expand her
sexual boundaries with whoever is fortunate enough to be intimate with her.
But doing so in concert
with her core values... not compromising the other aspects of that spirit which makes her the powerful,
beautiful, special and total woman that she is.
When I am with a woman like this, she makes me a
better lover and enhances my own pleasure a hundred fold whether I cum or not. A totally win-win experience
which defies description.
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